Kids and
teenagers are constantly changing. They grow up quickly and before you know it,
that giggly, energetic toddler is a teenager who sleeps ‘til noon. As we grow
it’s normal to experience changes but with all the changes going on, how can we
tell which ones are actually normal? At what point should parents start
worrying that their teenager's “mood swings” are just “growing pains” or
“hormones”? It can be hard to tell. The truth is, for many teens, these changes
aren’t just part of growing up. These changes are symptoms of mental illness.
Mental
illness can be disruptive to a teenager’s normal development that can affect
them for the rest of their lives. The most common include anxiety disorders,
anorexia, bulimia and depression.
Around 15% of teenagers experience depression. It can affect attitudes
and emotions, making teens feel sad or irritated. It causes people
to experience low mood, loss of interest, feelings of guilt or low
self-worth, disturbed sleep or appetite, low energy, and poor concentration.
Anxiety
disorders. 10% of young people suffer from an anxiety disorder such as anxiety
itself, OCD and/or PTSD. When suffering from one of these you can experience
dizziness and light-headedness. Anxiety disorders can cause rapid heart rate, palpitations, and chest pain. You may also be at an
increased risk of high blood pressure and heart disease.
Around 8% of young people are diagnosed with ADHD. It can make it very
difficult to focus and pay attention. It can contribute to a variety of health
problems, including compulsive eating, substance abuse, anxiety, chronic stress
and tension, and low self-esteem.
Around 4% of
teenagers suffer from either anorexia or bulimia. Anorexia can cause
infertility, the shutdown of major body systems, brain damage, heart attacks
and even death. Bulimia
can also cause high blood pressure, severe headaches, seizures, and fatigue. Bulimia damages the nerves that signal
to your brain that your stomach
is full.
Anyone can become a victim to the trap of mental illness.
However, there are multiple factors that put you at a higher risk of
experiencing mental illness compared to others. For example, physical problems
such as disease and injury, LGBTQ+ youth, young people who have witnessed drama
or who have just gone through a major change in life and people with a family
history of mental illness.
Now, after reading the previous part of this article you may
be questioning if your teenager is one of those unfortunate souls who have
fallen into the mental illness trap.
Here are some signs: sudden change in behaviour, sudden
change in feelings, avoiding places or situations they don’t usually, suddenly
started keeping to themselves, showing little regard for the property or
feelings of others, change in appetite and change in sleep schedule.
But how do you, a worried parent, approach this topic with
your teenager? It’s such a sensitive topic. How do you get them to talk to you?
Well, if they don’t want to talk about it, don’t force them. If you do force
them, it could encourage them to not want to talk about it in the future. Just
offer them your unconditional love and tell them that if they need you then
you’re there. You could help by setting up therapy sessions which will help you
get to the bottom of it quicker. Maybe introduce something where your teen can
say something to you indirectly, for example a “feelings box” where they write
their feelings on a piece of paper and put it in the box. You can read it and
when they’re ready you can talk about it.
Mental illness is a serious topic, not just for young
children or adults. The stress levels experienced by teenagers today are the
same of that as 1950s mental asylum patients. It’s not something you can just
brush off as just a “moody teenager” or brush it off that certain genders act
certain ways. This is something that needs to be taken seriously and if we
don’t, it’ll get to a point where teenagers think mental illness is normal and
something they have to experience - which isn’t fair to anyone. Not men or women,
boys or girls, adults or children. So why should it be fair to teens?
Maegan Willson
Maegan Willson
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